Chaos, Kindness, and a Cameo by the PM: Our Race Across Northumberland!

This time last week, six teams were frantically racing to reach the final checkpoint of a two-day, low-budget adventure race across Northumberland and Newcastle, all in aid of Hospice Ethiopia UK.

Day 1 kicked off in Ponteland, where teams lined up in the park armed with nothing but their backpacks, paper maps (dated 1991!), green bandanas and a strict £20 daily cash budget. At 9:23am they were off, sprinting in different directions to locate the first checkpoint in Morpeth. The strategies differed from the get go with one team hopping straight onto a local bus, while another managed to hitch a ride in a red Porsche. By the time everyone reached Morpeth, a 1 hour and 54 minute gap had already opened between first and sixth place.

From Morpeth’s flower clock, teams were sent east to Northumberland’s iconic coastline. Clues guided them to precise checkpoints including the Ferryman’s Hut in Alnmouth, Warkworth Castle, and the famous fish and chip steps in Seahouses. Along the way, two teams successfully completed a challenge to win a Newcastle Brown Ale, while three teams fully immersed themselves in the local culture, perfecting phrases like “Gan canny on the road bonny lasses.”

By 5:00 PM, everyone had made it to the campsite in Longhoughton. Tents were pitched, and stories were shared over some questionable low-budget dinners. The “Thompson Old Timers” took the crown for the most unusual meal with their Toblerone sandwiches—now appropriately dubbed “a Northern pain au chocolat.”

On Sunday, the madness reset at 10:00am. One lucky team managed to hitch a lift right outside the campsite with a friendly couple who dropped them directly at Barter Books in Alnwick, the first checkpoint of the day. With its open fires and model trains passing overhead, this quirky bookshop was the perfect place to start the day’s adventures. Teams then journeyed through Rothbury before beginning their final descent into Newcastle City Centre, collecting extra points along the way. One challenge required buying the strangest item possible from a charity shop. Two teams unknowingly bought the matching set of a Winnie the Pooh plant pots collection. However, the ultimate winners, “Wrong Direction,” salvaged a “Howay the Lads” top for just 50p, taking maximum points for cultural relevance and budget-savviness.

As the teams closed in on the finish line, dashing between Jesmond Dene waterfall, Ouseburn Farm, and the Free Trade Inn – they were given one final task. Every team had been handed two bottles of beer that morning; to cross the finish line, they had to find a stranger to help open them and share the drink!

The first proof photo came through from “Wrong Direction,” who were first to make it across the line at the RedHouse pub. Ten minutes later, “The Jess & Kanchen Situation” arrived waving their arms in the air before collapsing onto the pavement after a brutal final sprint down the Quayside, where they had been battling market punters and limping Great North Runners. Over the next hour and a half, the rest of the pack rolled in, each with their own tales to tell.

As if the weekend hadn’t featured enough chaos, we then realised we were sharing the pub with the Prime Minister! He politely agreed to a picture and asked all about our weekend antics and the incredible cause we were supporting.

Alice, Andy, and Jess

A message from trustee Alice: 

A massive, heartfelt thank you! Honestly, by Sunday evening I could hardly string a sentence together. I was so overwhelmed with joy (and that was before shaking hands with the PM). I truly couldn’t have asked for a better weekend. The people who threw themselves into this challenge are a constant source of inspiration and motivation for me. You made this event everything we hoped for and so much more 💚

To our incredible followers and donors: a huge thank you to everyone who tracked our live updates on Instagram. Your messages and cheers kept the teams going. We have now received 73 donations, bringing our total to £1,922.26 (plus £468.75 in Gift Aid)! We are completely blown away by this community’s generosity. This money is genuinely life-changing. It goes directly to supporting Hospice Ethiopia, a non-government organisation in Addis Ababa. Because of you, their dedicated staff can continue providing essential, free home-based care to ensure that terminally ill individuals can die with dignity and free from pain.

It’s not too late to donate – please visit Just Giving

Jill and Tim Morgan discuss their visit to Hospice Ethiopia

Jill: Even though I have been a trustee for 2 years and have had numerous conversations about the work of Hospice Ethiopia, the visit exceeded my expectations, and I realised how important face to face visits are to all those who work in the hospice. Tim and I were there to make videos of the work of the staff, not only the medical staff but also those who do the important back up, the guards, the drivers and the cook. What a joy to hear from everyone and being able to match the faces to the names I type in the minutes at trustee meetings.

The overriding feeling I experienced on driving into the compound was the warmth of the staff towards us and each other. The genuine feeling of pride in their compound and their work and desire to ‘show it off’. Having been shown around and introduced to the staff, Tim and I set about interviewing the staff to find out about working at Hospice Ethiopia. One of the most moving quotes from the interviews was from the guard Yeshitla in response to the question, ‘What do you like about working for Hospice Ethiopia?’

“I’ve worked here for twelve years, and I love the unique nature of the work of the hospice. I hope its work will spread throughout the whole of Ethiopia.”

Yeshitla

Gulilat Korbu (Finance and Administration Manager), in his interview, was anxious to thank HEUK for the funds from ‘The Big Give’, which meant he had the opportunity to visit Hospice Africa Uganda in Kampala and learn from the accounting team at that much bigger organisation.

Recent appointments funded by HEUK include Rahel Kebede and Tsehay Sahi as a social worker and nurse respectively. Rahel, who came from the court system is the first social worker appointed to work at Hospice Ethiopia. She has been included in some clinical palliative care training. Her role is to assess the social and financial needs of those patients and find practical solutions to deal with this aspect of living with terminal illness in a country with no welfare state.

The pressure on the team caused by increasing numbers of patients and developing awareness of the benefits of palliative care, will be alleviated by the appointment of Tsehay. With a background in nursing in schools this is a significant shift in focus for her career, but she talked about how interested she was in the new direction and her determination to upskill through lots of hard work.

The cook, Selamawit (Salamo) showed with pride her kitchen where she provides lunch for between 14-18 patients at the day care sessions every other Thursday. She also makes delicious coffee for the staff (and visitors) as well as cleaning the compound.

Selamawit

Kalkidan, an experienced nurse, talked movingly about her work visiting patients. She is about to study for a Diploma in Palliative Care, funded by HEUK at Nairobi Hospice. She is excited to learn new things. This is her first trip out of Ethiopia and in fact out of Addis Ababa.

Wengil Yared, the Programme Manager was a huge support to the interview process, she acted as interpreter and made useful suggestions as the interviews were filmed. ‘We love being part of the team,’ was mentioned by everyone.

Tim:  Patient visits in Addis aren’t a quick ten minute job – HE’s nurses will usually only be able to fit in four to six visits a day, with each one often lasting an hour.  They have a driver and typically it will take anything from 30 to 90 minutes to go from one patient to the next, driving along rutted paths, through the middle of busy markets, avoiding all sorts of obstacles – such as giant potholes or horses tethered in the middle of the road. Once you get to the address, you walk, perhaps along a narrow mud path, to a single-room earth and straw shack with a tin roof and no windows.  Despite the unimaginable poverty, people are welcoming.  In one visit, I was sent out of the home while the patent was examined and a neighbour, seeing me taking photos, came out with a stool for me to sit on while I waited.   (She didn’t speak but smiled at my excruciating attempt at ‘ameuseugenallo’ (thank you)).  The patients themselves were usually willing to share their story on video.  All the ones we saw were women, almost always they had been abandoned by their husbands, who tended to blame the patient for the illness.  Hopefully a relative or neighbour would be on hand to offer support, but certainly not always.  They spoke of their illness and how Hospice Ethiopia had changed their lives, not only in terms of alleviating their symptoms but also with financial and spiritual help.  And as we went, they blessed us.  Which made us feel humbled but also ashamed, guilty at the luck of the draw that gave us so much. 

Jill and Tim: We marvelled at the contrasts in Addis, the huge building projects being undertaken to create a ‘Dubai of Africa’, and the pride of the Ethiopians in this extraordinary remodelling, whilst many are living in extreme poverty in dwellings on the streets. The traffic, and fumes, which made travelling around the city very time consuming, seemed to be an accepted part of the day. I had to close my eyes on many an occasion but there was no evident road rage or frustration, just acceptance, something it was hard for us to comprehend.

Everywhere we were greeted with warmth and hospitality and care. Patience and love, that’s my takeaway from Ethiopia.

Patient story: Ayana

Last November our trustees visited Ayana with HE Nurse Kalkidan. She is a 40 year old female patient with HIV and severely reduced mobility due to a presumed toxoplasmosis infection which damaged her nervous system 21 years ago.

She was married to a policeman and has one daughter. Following domestic violence she became divorced and has been bedridden due to her damaged nervous system for the past 21 years. Her sister brought up her daughter. Ayana was referred to Hospice Ethiopia by a Community Volunteer Worker. On the first visit the nurse found Ayana lived alone and was severely depressed and suicidal. Her 24 year old daughter visits her fortnightly to wash her.

Hospice Ethiopia has arranged for Ayana to receive a monthly grant from the Tewolde Medhane fund which allows her to pay for a maid to prepare her food and be a companion to her. She lives in her parent’s house, but her sister wants her to move out so that the house can be sold and the money divided between them. This is a cause of great anxiety to her.

Nurse Kalkidan organised the prescriptions for several medications: Anti-retroviral medication, amitriptyline for neuropathic pain, co-tramoxazole, and Baclofen. Kalkidan also issued some antacid oral liquid as Ayana had a new complaint of abdominal distension and indigestion. Despite being bed-bound for 21 years her skin and nutrition were good. She is continent and her bowels are open daily.

Ayana told Nurse Kalkidan that she felt she was only alive today due to Hospice Ethiopia’s regular visits to her.

The Big Give 2024

Many of you have generously made donations in the past that have helped provide care for patients at Hospice Ethiopia. We’re very excited to let you know that Hospice Ethiopia UK has been selected again this year to participate in The Big Give Christmas Challenge 2024, the UK’s largest matched funding campaign.
 
We hope to raise £11,500 this year to increase Hospice Ethiopia’s capacity to care for more patients as they approach the end of their lives. We hope to raise enough money to fund an additional nurse and a new Social Worker to the team, but we can’t do this without your help.

One donation, twice the impact.

Donations to this project will be matched for 7 days, from 12pm on Tuesday 3rd December – Tuesday 10th December 2024.  So, every pound you give during that period means two pounds for Hospice Ethiopia.
 
Only donations made through the official Big Give website will count for match funding so put the date in your diary now! 

Successful Jane Austen event raises £1560

We had a fantastic event on Sunday 28th July with the dramatized reading from Jane Austen’s Northanger Abbey at Cromer Hall. The actors/readers were brilliant, the musicians fabulous and the high tea scrumptious. As for the setting – it was simply glorious, and we were lucky to have such wonderful weather. Huge thanks to Benjie and Dido Cabbell Manners for letting us use their beautiful home (and for providing a superb lunch for the workers). Massive kudos to script writer Margy Seale and the fabulous cast. Soprano Emma Nuule and her accompanist John Farmer were a delight, as was Jamie Mumford playing incidental music on his recorder. And then, as ever, there were all the background folk who contributed so much hard work – including the bakers, Kate, Rosie, Elizabeth and Julie and Sue, and the very hardworking tea folk, Claire, Julie, Rebecca, Steph and Rachael. And, of course, many thanks to the wonderful people who came and supported the event – raising £1560 in the process, which will make a huge contribution to support Hospice Ethiopia. The money raised is enough to pay for a specialist nurse looking after 100 patients for three months in Ethiopia.

The 2024 Jane Austen event sold out, as did the 2023 one… if you’d like to know about the 2025 event in time to grab a ticket or two, sign up to the newsletter at the bottom of this page.